How do I Know if I’m Drinking Too Much?

I’ve worked for many years with people who have concerns about their use of drugs and alcohol. A question that comes up frequently is “How do I know if I’m drinking too much?” Perhaps they have had one hangover too many, or their friends have begun to express concerns about how much they’re drinking. Even worse, they may have been pulled over for driving under the influence or they may have failed to complete important tasks at work or school due to drinking.

There are some clear and simple guidelines to determine when your patterns of alcohol use begin to edge into the zone which suggests possible (or definite) problems. Let’s take a quick look at these.

Screening for at-risk drinking

According to the US National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism (NIAAA), “drinking becomes too much when it causes or elevates the risk of alcohol-related problems or complicates the management of other health problems.” Accordingly, health care providers are encouraged to routinely screen patients for patterns of heavy drinking.

Step 1 – Number of drinks per day?

The screening process is simple and straightforward. The first question is “How many times in the past year have you had: 5 or more drinks in a day (for men), or 4 or more drinks in a day (for women)?” If you have had one or more days in the past year where you drank 5 or more drinks (men) or 4 or more drinks (women), you are considered an “at-risk drinker.”

Step 2 – Typical weekly drinking pattern?

The next step is to determine how many days a week you drink, on average, and how many drinks you have on a typical day. By multiplying the average number of drinking days per week and the typical number of drinks, a weekly drink average is obtained. For example, if you drink 3 days per week on average and typically have 3 drinks per day, your weekly average is 3 X 3, or 9 drinks per week. Heavy weekly drinking is defined as 8 or more drinks per week for women and 15 or more drinks per week for men.

Step 3 – Assessment for alcohol use disorder

Next, the health care provider will ask you a series of more detailed questions about your use of alcohol over the past 12 months. This allows them to determine if there is a problematic pattern of alcohol use and whether your particular pattern meets the specific criteria to be considered a diagnosable alcohol use disorder.

Understanding drinking patterns and recommended limits

Depending on the results of this screening, the health care provider then provides advice and assistance tailored to either a) at-risk drinking or b) an alcohol use disorder. An important part of this assistance is to provide education about typical adult drinking patterns and recommended maximum drinking limits.

It’s recommended that men age 65 and under should have no more than 4 drinks in a day AND no more than 14 total drinks in a week. For women (and men over 65), have no more than 3 drinks in a day AND no more than 7 drinks in a week. Take a second and see how your daily and weekly drinking patterns compare to these guidelines. If you’re over these limits, that’s likely cause for concern.

To further put these numbers into perspective, 72% of US adults NEVER exceed the daily and weekly limits stated above. If you never exceed these limits, you’re in a healthy group where fewer than 1 in 100 adults has an alcohol use disorder.

Additionally, only 16% of US adults exceed the daily drinking limits noted above. If you’ve exceeded the daily drinking limit, you’re in a group where about 20% of adults have an alcohol use disorder.

Finally, only 10% of US adults exceed BOTH the daily and weekly drinking limits. If you exceed both of these limits, you’re in a group where almost 50% of adults have an alcohol use disorder.

Next steps

At this point, you may be breathing a sigh of relief that you don’t seem to be an at-risk drinker, based on these guidelines. If so, that’s terrific. However, if you drink at all, you should continue to monitor your patterns of use and make sure not to exceed the recommended daily and weekly limits.

Also, begin taking small steps to monitor and moderate your drinking. Keep track of how much you drink. Understand that one “standard” drink is 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof spirits. Set a goal to reduce how much you drink so you never exceed the daily or weekly limits. Don’t drink on an empty stomach. Avoid triggers (people, places, situations) where you are more likely to drink excessively. Learn how to say no when offered a drink you don’t want.

What if your drinking pattern exceeds one or both of the recommended daily/weekly limits and you have more significant concerns about how your drinking is affecting you? Seek out help, and do it now. There are many options, including seeing a therapist who specializes in substance misuse issues, attending an AA (Alcoholics Anonymous) meeting or other support groups, reading reputable self-help books or websites, or checking out more intensive treatment options such as residential substance misuse rehabilitation programs. Remember, help is available, but it’s up to you to take the first step.

Here’s a question: What are your typical drinking patterns and do they suggest reason for concern? Please leave a comment. Also, please subscribe to my blog and feel free to follow me on X (formerly Twitter), “like” my Facebook page, or connect on LinkedIn. Thanks!

Reference

Rethinking Drinking: Alcohol and Your Health, National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism, 2022.